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One big question we are asked frequently is what kind of women use our services and why do they want to leave their countries. Well, this is easy to answer since 95% of the women we publish have the same basic interest, hope and outlook as 95% of the men who read our publications whether paper or electronic.
Most of the women who write to us have a sense that there is a man some place, on the great planet of ours, who will truly love her for exactly what she is and therefore, treat her correctly as a good husband would. I know what some of you are thinking, what about all those stories your friends told you of how these women just want to get to the US or another country and will leave you when they can, or that if you marry the woman, you now own their family.
"Water Seeks Its Own Level." Water seeking its own level is a Natural Law and it governs the interaction between all liquid bodies, also known as "fluid dynamics" for you engineer types. The law basically says, if you have two bodies of liquid which are connected in some way, no matter what the difference in size between these two bodies, the liquid of both bodies will seek a common level.
Well, this law is true in other areas of life too! "The Laws of Nature govern the interactions between all bodies in the Universe, celestial bodies like planets and stars, as well as human bodies, just like ours!" (One of my personal quotes for you...) So, the persons who have these above things happen to them, have a whole lot to do with why it happens. For the record, we find about an 80% - 90% success rate of our marriages, so it's obvious this only happens in a very small percent of these marriages. It's up to you to do the leg work in your letters and make sure you and your future wife have enough in common to hold hands the whole journey.
Okay, so what do I do now?
If you think about Love for a while, I'll bet anything you will find that Being in Love is a direct result of sharing yourself fully with another person. I know, that's a nice statement, and it's most likely true, but what do you do with it. Hummm... times like this I wished I finished my book already so I could just share that with you. But, since I have not finished it, I'll give you some food for thought anyway.
If Being in Love is the willingness to share yourself fully, and since we are talking about a two person relationship of marriage, then there are at least two people who need to find out who they really are. Now, most people will say quickly, "Oh yeah, I know who I am," but...when they start to dig in just a bit and ask some important questions, they discover, they have not taken enough time to consider what's really important to them in life and put what's really important in a proper order of importance in their life.
So, as you begin your letter writing process, take all the time needed to find out what are the top five or top ten things which are MOST important in your life. Also, as you are writing to your new friends, take the time in each letter to help her discover what's really most important to her too. The next step in the process is learning how to demonstrate what's really most important. Demonstration means that you are living the principles or qualities which you said are most important.
"Being in Love is a matter of the Heart and not the Mind"
Please note this again, "Being in Love is a matter of the Heart and not the Mind" (another personal quote for you...), but what this means is if you are going to try to fall in love using your brain, your intelligence, rather than your Heart, which is the Spirit part of your life, it's not going to happen. So, if you do not believe in anything greater than yourself, you will most likely find it impossible to fall in love...
We suggest a New Approach towards meeting someone. Consider taking the High Road which is a Natural Path to finding Love. This High Road is referred to as the Inner Journey, vs. the Outer Journey or the Low Road. We know the Low Road is often the choice of many. In part because it seems well defined, easy to understand and even what we call popular. Unfortunately, it often does not produce the results we are looking for.
Please remember, "You can not break the Laws of Nature, you can only break yourself against them! In relationships, many people (including many of us) have been trying to either Bend or Break the Laws of Nature, as they relate to being related..."
Finally, "Be at Peace within Yourself and Learn to Let Nature Take Its Course!"
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