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Red Flags: Warning
Signs When Dating Online
Take your time to ensure the people you are meeting on Christian
Cafe are serious about your safety and a healthy relationship.
Some of the potential warning signals include the following.
* The member offers his/her email address or asks for your
email address, phone number, IM information, or other contact
information when you barely know him/her
* The member is elusive in providing answers (within reasonable
time) to a lot of your questions
* The behaviour of the member seems to fluctuate or change drastically
from one day to the next or from the first contact to later contacts
* The member acts harshly, then the next email apologizes profusely;
later this member acts harshly towards you again.
* The member wants to meet you at some private location (his
house, his "friend's" place, your place)
* The member needs money for a bus ticket, plane ticket, taxi,
etc., and wants you to send it to him/her.
While we want you to be cautious, we also want you to have
fun on the site and meet people in person if that is what is
best for you :)
What kind of precautions would you want your friends to take
when meeting someone they met on the Internet?
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here to visit ChristianCafe and enjoy your FREE trial membership
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Make the Most of Your Time on ChristianCafe.com
You need to be concerned for your general safety, but there
are wonderful people on the Cafe who are interested in you and
are waiting to hear from you! The Cafe is about relationships
and we want you to enjoy your time, after all :)
Some members write to us because they aren't receiving enough
mail or replies from those they've written to. In the vast majority
of cases this is because they haven't sent very much mail. Developing
a relationship, especially via the Internet, takes a lot of time.
You need to persevere. And, you need to write to lots of people
on the Cafe. If you haven't already done so please read about
writing a more appealing dating profile for some great tips.
Here are some other tips to help you fill your mailbox:
* Join in the Chat Discussions: Chat, which is for paid members
only, is another avenue for meeting people. To sign up for a
paid membership please see your Membership page inside your account.
Use your Who's On page inside your account to see who's in the
chat rooms.
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* Post Photos: Try and pick photos you feel are flattering, in
which you are smiling, looking both confident and happy. Show
one where you are doing something you enjoy :) People who are
self-confident tend to be regarded as more attractive than those
who are insecure about their looks.
* View the New Users List Each Day: Accessed via the Search menu,
view who is new on the Cafe and welcome those you are interested
in.
* Write Lots of Mail!: There are thousands of members on ChristianCafe.com.
The best way to get others to notice you is to send mail to those
you're interested in getting to know.
Those who are online more often, involved in letter writing,
send Instant Messages, and join in on the Chat room discussions
consistently report making more friends in the Cafe - even meeting
that special someone :)
Yes, People Do Meet Meet
Through the Cafe
There are thousands upon thousands of couples who have met
their soulmate on ChristianCafe.com. We post some of their experiences
which they submit to us on our Testimonials page. We want you
to enjoy your time on ChristianCafe.com. There are thousands
of Godly men and women who are serious about starting a healthy
relationship. Do not hesitate to contact others whom you find
interesting; just be sure that if you find someone you think
is of "special" interest that you take your time :)
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